Hey All
Firstly, please reply by Private Message only please...
Not too sure about posting on here, but I'm doing it anyway... see what happens eh
I'm a pretty sorted, good looking, fun, successful and social 26yr old British Muslim bi guy living in London. I'm really happy with what I've achieved, I've got an awesome family, job and have everything I need of my own, including my own house and much more. I think I'm ready to settle down with a decent les / bi girl for a long term relationship as best of friends, and for all intensive purposes, as my wife - even though we may not sleep together, I'm looking for someone who we can share everything with each other and have a total blast in life
A little about me - I'm living in london in my own place. I was fortunate enough to be quite successful at uni and after my masters, I've been pretty successful financially, socially, in my family life and career wise (I'm a consultant) - so I count myself fortunate! I'm also told I'm good looking - and to be fair, i've never struggled in attracting guys / girls alike
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I've always been a popular person - I'm personable and love meeting new folk - both traditionally for 'chai shai' in family environments and also more socially with friends my own age, of all walks of life. I do often frequent clubs with friends now and again, though never really ventured into the gaysian arena!!! I don't drink, but unfortunately, I'm a smoker (recently serious to quit though!) I've been brought up in a really well balanced household - and my family are extremely well respected, urdu speakers and I love the fact that they've instilled certain values without hindering my socialising with people regardless of race and religion. Although we as a family are not strict, we're very confident and happy to be Muslims.
I'm very straight acting and dress trendy but smart - coz its just as important to keep the aunties and uncles impressed as it is to look good to everyone else lol
I'm particularly interested in meeting someone who I can trust to mix, respect, integrate and have loads of fun with my family - and I'd love to do the same. My family are awesome - really well respected and also loads of fun to be around. I'm looking for a life time friend who we can live life happily with an understanding, but we can always depend on each other. I've done well in life, and to be honest, I want to find someone who I can share everything with, give them a home and a really good lifestyle we can enjoy together without any judgements of each other or secrets. I aim high in everything I do.
I'm looking for someone with a mind of their own, their own opinions but at the same time, no attitude. Ideally, I'd like to meet a girl who can have a great balance between homliness and outgoingness (is that even a word!?)
I hestitate saying this last bit coz I know it may come across as arrogant - which certainly isn't my intention. When I say I've done well, and I'm good looking and successful, I sort of really mean it, i know people can say a lot of stuff on here. I really only want to hear from genuine girls who are serious and want to meet a guy who can mix with their family and can mix with mine without any hangups. Respecting my family is also really important - I want to keep doing the whole family occasions thing, and Ideally I'd like to take part in your family events too.
Rest assured, I'm straight acting
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One more thing though, Although I'm undecided, I think I am inclinded to one day consider starting a family, be it by normal conception or adoption. Just so you know
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PM me with your email address / phone number / facebook if your up for getting to know each other more. If nothing else, I'm always up for meeting a new mate!
